Wisdom is not what you think
I’m probably not telling you anything you did’t know when I say that wisdom is an important theme for me. I predicted that this would be so around my 27th, when I said to one of my teachers that I wanted to become a wise woman when I grew up. This teacher told me I...
Are you done pleasing? Start leading – your way
It’s been quiet on the blogging front lately. I’ve been going through a lot – which tends to make me quiet (although, if you follow me on social media, you have heard from me). All good, by the way. Growth, development, transformation. In short, the stuff I help my...1-step guide to happiness
People love roadmaps and step by step guides. The three step guide to a spotless house. Your dream job in six easy steps. Five steps to a stress free life. Magazines, the internet, online courses: they are all infested with multiple step action plans. Always just a...Is your soul asking you to be a bigger badass?
Girl, you were taught to be a good girl, weren’t you? I definitely was. And I am SO good at it. Flexible, pleasant, pleasing, adaptable, accommodating. And I am SO fed up with that! For where does that lead you? Sure, people will like you. Or not because, as I...
How to reconcile self-acceptance and self-improvement?
“I am told to accept myself exactly as I am. I must love myself, embrace myself, including the parts I may not like so much, or perhaps even judge. I am already perfect….’ But hang on – is it wrong to want to be a better person? To want to be more patient with my...Volg mij op
